The whole "let's be honest" thing simply doesn't exist these days and doesn't seem to apply for the most part..Not to scare you or anything but I'm saying that you must be more cautious than ever before and you must pay very close attention to the way a person speaks to others, whether it be a close friend or a stranger..they should be kind to others and if they're not then maybe you should choose someone else to spend your hours with,
Another thing to think about these days is this..if the person you're with cannot express to you that they are passionate in helping people then why would they want to help you?
Jeremiah 9:4-8 "Let everyone beware of his neighbor,
and put no trust in any brother,
for every brother is a deceiver,
and every neighbor goes about as a slanderer. Everyone deceives his neighbor, and no one speaks the truth; they have taught their tongue to speak lies; they weary themselves committing iniquity. Heaping oppression upon oppression, and deceit upon deceit,
they refuse to know me, declares the Lord. Therefore thus says the Lord of hosts: “Behold, I will refine them and test them, for what else can I do, because of my people?
Their tongue is a deadly arrow;
it speaks deceitfully;
with his mouth each speaks peace to his neighbor, but in his heart he plans an ambush for him."
Be wise and learn from the bible of the warning signs and perhaps it will save you from heartaches and tears, don't be over-trustful but don't be afraid to develop trust in those who are decent, kind, caring, giving, and most of all honest! Even though you may have been hurt before for being over-trustful..remember this, there are still good people out there and it's not the end for you! God has an honest person out there for you, all you have to do is wait for them to come into your life and believe me..you will be able to recognize them and see that they walk in truth!
And remember this..No matter who comes and goes in your life keep this in mind..God will always be the perfect gentleman and one that you can always trust in..at all times!