Looking into the world these days it's a shame when it comes to men because a lot of them simply do not respect women at all or even speak to them properly for that matter,
but at the same time looking into the world a lot of the women out there do not know how to demand respect of the opposite sex and because of it men no longer rise up to become a man of great character.
In this day in age we have men who disrespect women and women who do not value themselves as they should by disrespecting their bodies and selling it to the lowest bidder (so to speak)..
Just because a man is interested in you and no one else is around, that doesn't mean you have to sell yourself short..
Do you not know that you are more precious than jewels to God?
He loves you and He doesn't want you to sell yourself short, but even if you have given up part of yourself to a man who didn't earn it..that doesn't mean that you're not a ruby anymore..nor does it mean that you should settle with that lifestyle, it means that you get to have a brand new start and you can now move forward in your quest in life by becoming a woman that you should've been and it allows you to seek to find a man of whom deserves your heart and your loyalty, one that doesn't allow you to compromise your honor at the expense of his pleasure!
A real Man is out there still..I promise you, and if you haven't met him yet..don't settle for someone who hasn't earned your affections and is instead a man who's used to playing with hearts of unsuspecting ladies who still have their honor, but ladies let me explain something to you..
Just because you fell for it and you gave yourself to a man.. that doesn't mean that your heart is no longer pure, that just means that you fell down for a short time but you got up after you lost sight of who you are..You are still a Woman that deserves true love, You are still a ruby, You are still worth going out there and finding your Prince Charming and I've got news for you..you won't have to sneak out at midnight either! And your prince won't have any confusion as to whom He was dancing with because He will save the dance for you..his princess!
If you want these dreams to come true for you then stop what you're doing and give your future to the one who holds the future!
Stop settling, stop standing behind someone who will never show you honor, stop making excuses for him and walk away from that life..God has the right one out there for you and though you've failed in your walk..He is still waiting for you to arrive! He will honor you, be patient with you, He will love your family as his own, He will fight for you without fighting with you, He will encourage you and comfort you when you are afraid, He will do what it takes to earn your respect and in the end He will be faithful and worthy to be called "yours" and He will be a Man of such character that your friends will be proud of the life He has vowed to give to you!
That is what you deserve and that is what it's supposed to be like when it comes down to it! Don't give up ladies..or for that matter don't give up gentlemen either! He is waiting for you, She is waiting for you! You just have to get ready to meet the right one and when you meet them..you'll have such peace in your heart that this is the right person for you without question!Proverbs 31-10
"10 An excellent wife who can find? She is far more precious than jewels.
11 The heart of her husband trusts in her, and he will have no lack of gain.
12 She does him good, and not harm, all the days of her life.
13 She seeks wool and flax, and works with willing hands.
14 She is like the ships of the merchant; she brings her food from afar.
15 She rises while it is yet night and provides food for her household and portions for her maidens.
16 She considers a field and buys it; with the fruit of her hands she plants a vineyard.
17 She dresses herself with strength and makes her arms strong.
18 She perceives that her merchandise is profitable. Her lamp does not go out at night.
19 She puts her hands to the distaff, and her hands hold the spindle.
20 She opens her hand to the poor and reaches out her hands to the needy.
21 She is not afraid of snow for her household, for all her household are clothed in scarlet.
22 She makes bed coverings for herself; her clothing is fine linen and purple.
23 Her husband is known in the gates when he sits among the elders of the land.
24 She makes linen garments and sells them; she delivers sashes to the merchant.
25 Strength and dignity are her clothing, and she laughs at the time to come.
26 She opens her mouth with wisdom, and the teaching of kindness is on her tongue.
27 She looks well to the ways of her household and does not eat the bread of idleness.
28 Her children rise up and call her blessed; her husband also, and he praises her:
29 "Many women have done excellently, but you surpass them all."
30 Charm is deceitful, and beauty is vain, but a woman who fears the LORD is to be praised.
31 Give her of the fruit of her hands, and let her works praise her in the gates.