Sometimes after the years have passed by we are forced to cope with our painful past and utilize what we have learned from those bad experiences to build a much better future!
Although we cannot control when someone hurts us and we are sometimes left confused and full of questions of why they would hurt you so badly, you must move past those painful memories and reach out for more happy of times and somehow find it in yourself to forgive the person that has hurt you!
But then again..Sometimes we are hurt because of words left unsaid and as time goes by we come to realize that time cannot make up for that part of it but perhaps in the future peace could be made with the words that you never uttered from your mouth or that someone else never spoke to you, those words could be to a loved one, a family member, a friend or even someone you may have loved way back when you were younger, whatever it may be, remember this..Time is short and it matters who you choose to spend your life with or what friends you choose, so make your time count in the here and now, tell the truth, be caring, be devoted, be lovable and speak the words that will bring life to others and words that will also bring life to yourself!
I wanted to share part of this verse with you in hopes that it will put your life in perspective..
"a time to cast away stones, and a time to gather stones together;
a time to embrace, and a time to refrain from embracing; a time to seek, and a time to lose; a time to keep, and a time to cast away; a time to tear, and a time to sew; a time to keep silence, and a time to speak; a time to love, and a time to hate; a time for war, and a time for peace."